What do men and women want in a love relationship?

When recent polls asked what men and women would most like in their relationship, the resounding response was happiness. Is your love relationship a happy one? If it is not, then what exactly is a happy love relationship? This article tries to answer this pressing question. It will teach you how you can be guaranteed that your love relationship will bring you happiness.

As relationship advisor, I often hear men and women say they are happy with their love life. Behind closed doors, however, the same people who say they are happy with their love life admit that they are not. For many years, I have heard people say that although they are unhappy with what they have, it is better than being alone. Women, in particular, say it is too difficult to find a good man.

Certain steps are required to find the love relationship that will make you and your partner happy. Here are five simple steps to help you find the happiness that eludes you.

Step 1. Acknowledge that you have not been successful at relationship. This is key, because admitting that something is not right automatically programs your brain to bring about change. Denial, on the other hand, will keep you making excuses.

Step 2. When you have acknowledged the truth, you are now ready to finally succeed. Begin by finding love in the right places. What I mean here is a change of habit. I have put some of my clients through this process, and the result has been very rewarding for them. It also brought me much joy to know that somehow I have helped them find happiness.

Step 3. Seek your love relationship with the right person, your twin soul or what I call your soulmate. Here is why. Twin souls are two people who were created for and with each other in mind. They are parts of each other. This is why people may feel alone even if they are in a love relationship if it is not with their soulmates.

Your soulmate was created by a higher power, and it is only this higher power who can lead you to the person. Acknowledging this is a very important part of recognizing your soulmate. Because if a higher power created a twin soul for you the same higher power has created a way to bring the two of you together. This is so very important, I cannot stress it enough. I have gone through the process myself and know this from personal experience. So you have met a love interest, are dating or even in a relationship. You must do your part to recognize if you are each others soulmate or not. After that the next step, step 4 is the most important part of the process if you want assurance that you and your love interest were created for each other and that the relationship will work.

Step 4. Wait for a confirmation. When two people meet, the only way they can know they are soulmates is by receiving a confirmation. Confirmation comes in a variety of ways. Because soulmates were created for each other by a higher power, the same higher power will give you a confirmation. To make this point clear, I will ask you to see yourself as a mother. You have several cups in your cupboard. You ask your child to bring you a tea cup. Your child goes into the cupboard, where there are many different kinds of cups. The child takes one cup and brings it to you. You, the mother, will know whether your child has brought you the right cup. You then confirm the child’s success by letting the child know the cup is the right or wrong one. Likewise, your higher power will let you know if your man or woman is the right one.

Step 5. Finally, you must do your part. A higher power created a soulmate for you and will lead you to your soulmate and give you a confirmation when the two of you meet. The rest is up to you. It is important to understand that it is up to you to accept or not accept your soulmate. It is up to you to date, to meet people, and so on. And no matter what you may think, there are simple and effective ways of meeting the right person.

Let me draw upon the story of Adam and Eve to make a final point. When they were created for each other, after partaking of the fruit of the tree, Adam was displeased with Eve. Adam had the option of not accepting Eve as his twin soul, but Eve told Adam that, if he did not accept her, he would be alone. The secret here is to understand the word alone. Without your soulmate’s love, you will feel alone regardless of how handsome, beautiful, rich or famous you or your lover is. Understanding this is very important, because it will put you in the right frame of mind to go about your love life in the right way. Good luck to you


Adult Matchmaker Australia

Ernest Quansah is a Soulmate Relationship Expert who helps men and women find their true love and create the relationship of their dreams. He is the author of How to Identify Your Soulmate, For more information about his services, please visit http://www.soulmateinfoserve.com
Article Source: www.ArticlesBase.com

Technorati Tags: , , , , , , , , ,


More related articles from this website...
  • Figuring Out What Women Want : Red Hot Pie Australia

  • The problem with most books and articles that try to articulate exactly what women want from men is that they tend to get too specific, and since every woman on earth is different, you simply can’t generalize on what each of them want. That doesn’t mean that there aren’t a few tried and true aspects every woman wants in a....
  • How To Find Out If It Is Love Or Lust.

  • How do you know if what you are feeling is love or just simply lust for that other person? Well the dictionary clearly defines lust as an “intense longing” while love is being described as” strong affection for another person coming from close kinship or personal ties”. As you can see there is a big difference ....
  • Adult Matchmaker » Why Do Men Cheat?

  • In my relationship work, this question is probably the one I hear most often. It is not an easy question to answer. The usual glib answer; "because they can", is really not good enough. People, particularly women, want to know the reason why men cheat, or more particularly, why their man cheated. Different women have a different....
  • Adult Matchmaker » When The Old And The Young Date

  • Some relationships just don’t seem to fit right in our conscious. We see the couple and they look alright from a distance but as we move closer to them we notice one is much older than the other. With a puzzled look on our face we watch in amusement as they fawn over each other like newlyweds.....
  • How a Woman Flirts to Get Your Attention » Adult Matchmaker

  • It’s all about body language, and women often use body language to show men they are interested. Women who flirt are subconsciously trying to tell you they are interested and want to take things to the next level. Men sometimes find, though, that interpreting female flirting signals can be challenging. They may term it more of....
  • Why men fail with women and attraction

  • There are many reasons why men are failing with women and dating today but I'd like to look at it from an angle that you may not have thought about before. When it comes to the game of attraction, many men will start becoming needy, clingy, overwhelmed, etc. this means they're giving up their OWN....
  • Men’s Vulnerability & Unguarded Forte » Aussie Matchmaker

  • One point which women always put on top of their Wish List is the desire for a man who is expressive to the point of being vulnerable. Take this with some pinch of salt. Where men go wrong is that by trying to be honest in a relationship, they over tell. In the name of being true....
  • How to Get a Girl to Like you - Guaranteed Tips to Win Her Heart! » Adult Matchmaker

  • Are you stumped with how to get a girl to like you? Fear not, because there are ways to catch a woman’s heart. Around half of the world’s male population have a dilemma on how to capture the heart of the girl of their dreams the same as you. Just what is it that makes women weak in the knees....
  • Finding Love Online Can Be Much Easier Than You Think

  • Let's face it. If you can't be yourself online then you probably aren't going to be very comfortable when you are face to face with your newly found friend. I was always a very shy guy. Beautiful women terrified me! I would rather have had a root canal than to ask an attractive woman out on a date.....
  • Men’s Vulnerability & Unguarded Forte » Aussie Matchmaker

  • One point which women always put on top of their Wish List is the desire for a man who is expressive to the point of being vulnerable. Take this with some pinch of salt. Where men go wrong is that by trying to be honest in a relationship, they over tell. In the name of being true....
  • Honesty is the key to online dating for sex

  • Nowadays the term Online dating is fast becoming synonymous with adult dating, sex, adult sex personals, free adult sex personals, free sex dating, free sex personals and has become ana avenue for people looking for a fairly good fuck to find one as and when they need it. Most men who approach it are looking for ....
  • 9 Secrets to Get a Date After One Hour of Flirting Online! » Adult Friendfinder

  • If you are trying to pick up women online and just can’t get at least one date a week you certainly need a little help. Just read this article and start using these online flirting success tips and they will help you to get that first date much faster.You don’t want to spend too much time online....
  • Casual Sex Dating and Relationship

  • With changing lifestyles, relationship has become a burden for most people entrapped in fast paced rat race type of society. The rising number of divorce and cases of extreme marital discord is an instance that can be safely quoted to quantify the above statement.But then what to do? If relationship is a burden then no love,....
  • Seven Benefits of a Committed Relationship » Lavalife Personals

  • Most singles are seeking a committed relationship and date with that goal in mind. Many are not ready for commitment for a variety of reasons, but they don't want to be alone, and so they date to find a partner anyway. When their dating strategy doesn't align with their readiness status, these singles unconsciously set themselves....
  • Ten Reasons Why You Probably Never Go On Dates

  • Have you wondered why you never go out on dates like other people do? Would you like to meet someone and fall in love? “There aren’t any relationships out there that really work. I have never seen any I would want,” my client said. Have you ever heard yourself say anything like that? Unfortunately, what we see....
  • Common Online Dating mistakes men make that put women off you

  • In general, there are more men dating online than there are women. So if you are a man trying to find love online, you will want to make sure you’re going about things the right way.Although there are no failsafe written rules for online dating, there are certain unwritten etiquette rules that are advisable to follow if you....
  • Can You Really Trust The Person You Are Dating Online? » Lavalife Personals

  • Heather is a 42 year old American lady.Divorced with two children,she decided to try online dating to possibly get a new partner. She signed up with one of the popular dating sites and set up a profile.The anonymity and security of online dating appealed to her and she hoped it would work out for her. In....
  • Adult Friendfinder » Wham, Bam, Thank You M’am – Sizzling Tips to One Night Stand

  • While personally speaking, one night stands have never appealed to me, I know of several men who would not mind indulging in a bit of casual sex without any hope or binding that it should culminate in a serious relationship. As a general rule, men do not have too many hang-ups about such indulgences. There are....
  • What to do when you are looking for love » Adult Matchmaker

  • It seems like everyone is looking for love and while we are trying to find our soul mate, we have tv, books and movies showing some happy couple meeting by happenstance and, of course, falling in love. How convenient for them but in most cases this is not how it happens. In real life you don’t have....
  • Conversation Starters: Go Have an Adventure

  • To become a good conversationalist, you need to become interesting. And to become interesting, you need to experience many different things so that you will have different, unique experiences to talk about. Once you have unique experiences to talk about, you will find it much easier to start a conversation. One way you can do this....

Trackback URL for this post:
http://www.adultsexpersonals.com.au/what-do-men-and-women-want-in-a-love-relationship/79/trackback/

6 Responses to “What do men and women want in a love relationship?”

  1. Wendy wrote on 04/29/06 at 2:11 pm :

    Unusual First Dates - Step Out of the Box…

    Okay, so you?ve been emailing each other for awhile, maybe you?re text messaging and perhaps you?ve talked on the phone.? You feel a certain chemistry and you want to move on to the next step?the DATE.? You can?t decide where to go or what to do.? Th

  2. Dave wrote on 04/29/06 at 2:11 pm :

    How To Overcome Your Dating Anxiety…

    First of all know that dating anxiety is a common thing. Both men and women tend to suffer from this condition, especially if it is during the first date, or worse during a blind date! Not knowing what to expect creates an environment of uncertainty.

  3. Jesse wrote on 04/29/06 at 2:12 pm :

    How To Be A Good Boyfriend…

    A man can easily learn how to be a good boyfriend. All it takes is a little bit of practice and determination to do it. Willingness is the key for any man to learn how to be a good boyfriend. Unfortunately not all men are willing to study and do what

  4. Tracy wrote on 04/29/06 at 2:14 pm :

    Drinking and Sex - Should You? » Adult Matchmaker…

    Drinking is known as the number one ‘panties/boxers remover’ in the whole world. We all know that we should not drink and drive, but what about drinking and running to bed? We are not so sure about that, and those who have experienced havin…

  5. John wrote on 05/1/06 at 6:47 pm :

    Handling Your First Online Date…

    You have successfully registered with a dating site and are now all geared for your first online date. Remember, first impression is the last impression; your first online date has to be no less than perfect. Follow the tips mentioned below to start

    ….

  6. Chelsea wrote on 05/7/06 at 1:38 am :

    Relationship Advice: When To Pull The Plug…

    Reader #1: “Steve, is it possible to win over even the stubbornist of men without them knowing what has hit them and how? I want to improve the bond between us but how? What can spark off ‘Chemistry’ ?” Reader #2: Hello, Steve, …

TrackBack URI

Leave a Reply

XHTML: You can use these tags: <a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <strike> <strong>