What to do when you are looking for love » Adult Matchmaker

It seems like everyone is looking for love and while we are trying to find our soul mate, we have tv, books and movies showing some happy couple meeting by happenstance and, of course, falling in love. How convenient for them but in most cases this is not how it happens. In real life you don’t have someone designing a script of your life with the sole purpose of giving you a happy ending.

In real life you have to make your own happy endings. And it doesn’t begin by wishing for your true love each night or staying home on Saturday nights waiting for him to drop into your lap. Crazily enough you have to actually go out and socialize with others to increase your chances of finding the right one.

Here are some tips on how to find the right person for you while you are out looking for love. And this can be applied to those of you actively going out to clubs, hanging out in cafes, cruising the online dating sites , etc…

#1 If you have the habit of saying how much you hate dating, stop it. You are already setting yourself up for some lousy dates by going into them with that attitude.

#2 Know what you are looking for before you agree to go out on a date. If you are looking for a long term commitment then bar hopping is probably not the best method. If you are looking for someone to share your passion for sports, a sports club or the gym might be a better place to look.

#3 Be open to meeting the man or woman of your dreams anywhere, even in a grocery line or your local cafe.

#4 Put the book, your pda and your cell phone down. Why would someone approach you when you are making sure that you look busy?

#5 Smile for goodness sake. Most of us go around with our eyes on the ground. Practice making eye contact and smiling. Studies show that a smile increases your attractiveness by a huge percentage.

#6 Take care with your appearance. You don’t have to look like you are going to a premier at two in the afternoon but comb your hair, make sure that there aren’t any stains on your clothes and do your best to match. And for women apply at least a coat of lipstick.

#7 Free dating services are great but remember that most of these services are not screened properly. Use caution and remember, shockingly enough, not everyone tells the truth in their personal ad.

#8 Remember all dates are important dates. Whether you are going out for the first time or the fiftieth if you want to keep the passion going you must infuse each date with romance and enthusiasm.


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